7 Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Get Together With Your Ex
In our life, we all have been in love and felt that the other person means the world to us. These relationships sometimes work out and sometimes they don’t. But even after getting out of such relationships, we are still emotionally attached to that person. If such a person wishes to come back to your life, you should always remember why he/she is your ex in the first place.
The worst part of any relationship is the break up and today’s technology happens to be the most irritating thing for a person who has gone through break up recently. You start seeing their tweets, their Instagram stories and their Facebook selfies. It’s seems like the technology does not want you to get over the person you have recently broken up with. Also, unfriending them is really not an option as you cannot get their thought out of your mind. In case your ex tries to come back to your life, always remember why you broke up in the first place. You might have made some mistakes when in a relationship, but always remember that you went through a break up because he/she is not the one. Always remember, you deserve someone a lot better.
So, here are 7 reasons why you should say ‘No’ to your ex:
You have moved on: Going through a breakup can be really difficult but you should know that you have been through the worst part alone and have finally moved on. Your ex might realise his/her mistake later but by the time they did, you have already moved ahead in your life. He/she might try to get back together with you but remember- you don’t want the same thing again. You don’t want to go through what you have been through over and over again.
You deserve a lot better: When you are in a relationship with someone, you know if the person is the one or not. We might try to stick around for a while but such relationships are doomed from the beginning. In case he/she is trying to get back to you, remember why you broke up in the first place.
The reason behind break up: Since you were already in a relationship with them, there is a reason why you broke up. You might feel special when your ex texts you that he/she wants to get back with you but always remember the reason why you broke up in the first place. Your ex was not there when you needed him/her the most. He was rather chilling on the beach than to be with you during the difficult period.
Things have changed: A lot of things in your life might have changed after your break up. You might be wiser and more mature person than you were before and now you might not feel the same about the person you felt before.
You have already given enough chances: In order to save your relationship, you have already given many chances to the person you love. You don’t need to give them any more chances because you have already tried a lot.
You prefer being single: After a break up, you might realise that life of a single person is not bad after all and you would rather prefer to stay single than being in a worthless relationship.
He/She does not mean it: When your ex is trying to get back with you, he/she might not mean it. He/She might just be doing it because he/she misses the spark in their life. Always remember, it’s not worth it.